She Mail: Couple Wonders If They Should Stay Together For The Kids
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Here’s what our listeners are asking this morning:
I am about to move in with my boyfriend of 8 months to test the waters and see if we are compatible under the same roof. I feel like this is the right next step in our relationship.
However, he threw me a curve ball and said that we needed to set up a joint bank account as well. He thing is we are going to “test” living together that we need to act like it in all aspects. I am a bit nervous. We both know what each other does, but he has no idea how much money I make. I make a significant amount more than he does.
Wanted to see if you could help me figure this little situation out. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and have 2 beautiful children, 2 and 4 years old.
Our relationship over the past 3 years has faded and we both realized that we are not “in love” with each other anymore, but we still love each other.
I want us to stay together and be “roommates” and work with each other on having our own lives while under the same roof but he wants to divorce and do it before the kids grow up and have emotional trauma from it.
This sucks and I need your thoughts.
Thanks & LOVE LOVE LOVE the show!”
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