She Mail: Bride Worries After Fiance Drops Cheating Bomb
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My fiancé and I have been together a little over a year. The other day we were talking about a trip he took when we first started dating & he admitted that he fooled around with a girl we both know while he was there. He was laughing about it but when I reminded him we were together then, he said there was no way. He said that we might have been talking but not serious yet. This was over a year ago but I KNOW we were dating.
This man is amazing though. He has adopted my special needs son & our wedding is coming up February. I cannot imagine breaking up with him over this but at the same time it’s really bothering me. Why would he hook up with someone on a trip while he was dating me? Am I overreacting? What should I do? Please help!!
Lied to Bride
Dear Lied to Bride,
What a sticky situation! First of all, sorry that you stumbled into this stinker so close to your wedding. That’s the last thing an excited bride should have to deal with while she’s planning the big day. We don’t think you should cancel the caterer though. Men tend to the think that the actual relationship starts later than the woman does. It entirely possible he didn’t think you WERE serious yet. Let’s pretend that he DID though and that he actually DID cheat on you, for the sake of discussion. What really matters is how your relationship has been SINCE that day. Has he been good to you? Has he treated you and your son with respect? Does he make you happy and has he been committed to you since? If you can answer YES to those questions, then you have your answer. People make mistakes. We think that it’s officially OK to let this one go and be happy about your wedding. :)
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