She Mail: Handling A Coworker’s Flirtatious Boyfriend
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My co-worker’s boyfriend hit on me last night while I was out with some friends. My coworker seems like a good person, and I’m undecided on whether to tell her about it or not. I don’t want to create any unnecessary drama, but I would want her to relay the information to me if it were the other way around. So, should I tell her about her man approaching me or just let it be?
Unintentional Other Woman
Dear Unintentional Other Woman,
This is tough because as a woman, you feel like you SHOULD tell this woman her man is shady. However, we are going to advise against it. First of all, it could make for a difficult work situation for you. If she doesn’t believe you and stays with him, which is highly likely, you will lose a work friend. There’s also the chance (slight though it may be) that you misread this guy’s intentions. Maybe he was just drunk and didn’t realize he was invading your space. Odds are he WAS hitting on you, but if he’s THAT kind of guy she is bound to find out soon enough. Hope that helps!
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