She Mail: Woman’s Work Boyfriend Worries Husband
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I’ve been married for 4 years to a wonderful guy. I love him with all my heart. There is one thing I wish I could change and that is his jealousy. One of my co-workers often invites me to go out with him after work for cocktails. The guy is very sweet, he always pays and I enjoy his company. He is single, but he knows that I’m married. We have become very good friends and I love going out with him after work. My husband has become a raving lunatic because of this, though. He says that I’m basically cheating on him, and that when there is alcohol involved, the risk of something happening goes way up. Who’s wrong here? I feel like he doesn’t trust me and that he’s trying to control me. He feels like I’m not committed to our relationship, and he said that if I really loved him, I’d stop going.
Married with a Work Boyfriend
Dear Married with a Work Boyfriend,
Girl, I’m sorry but there wasn’t a single person in the room or on the phone who thought your nights out with this co-worker were OK. Sadly, you have to stop dating when you get married. It’s one of the rules and it sounds like these cocktail hours are really upsetting your husband too. What is it about this friend that makes you want to keep seeing him, even though it’s causing fights at home? Are you willing to take your husband along on these dates? If not, you might need to ask yourself some difficult questions.
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