She Mail: Woman Isn’t Jazzed About Engagement Ring
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Jeff and I have been together for two years and I’ve been waiting for him to propose. He finally did and everything was perfect … except the ring. The ring is so ugly that I can’t stand the thought of having to look at it every day of my life. But I love Jeff and I don’t want to hurt his feelings. Do you have any advice whatsoever on asking about changing to a different ring or do I just have to suck it up and wear this one?
Ring of Ire
Dear Ring of Ire,
Tony and John feel very strongly that your fiancé will be extremely hurt if you try to change your ring. They agree that the engagement is about your future life together and NOT a ring. That said, it WOULD be nice to have a ring you LIKE. Maybe you can get a really great wedding band or update your ring with a bigger stone at a special anniversary.
One caller suggested that you ASK you fiancé what it was about this ring in particular that got his attention. Maybe when he explains why he chose it for you, you’ll appreciate it more.
Hope that helps and congratulations on the engagement!
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