She Mail: Boyfriend Misses His Girlfriend’s Curvy Figure
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Hope you don’t mind helping out a guy this time. My girlfriend started working out really hard months ago and has dropped almost 20 pounds. I’m happy for her but she didn’t need to lose weight to begin with and now she’s lost all of the curves I use to love. I don’t want to hurt her feelings, but I really miss her old body and I don’t understand why she needed to lose that weight.
I think if I tell her how much I miss her curves, she might stop worrying about losing weight. Or she might get really mad.
What do you think?
Dangerous Curves Ahead
Dear Dangerous Curves Ahead,
You shouldn’t say anything to her about it. Compliment her hard work and then let it go. Remember, a woman’s body is like Texas weather. If you don’t like what it’s doing right now, wait a while. If you stay with your girlfriend for an extended period of time, her weight will fluctuate through a variety of things and you will probably see those curves again one day. The question you need to ask yourself now is which is more important to you: Your girlfriend or her body? If it’s the latter you might want to reconsider your priorities.
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