She Mail: Girl Stuck Between Dumping Boyfriend Or Going On Surprise Vacation With Him
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I’ve been dating a guy for about 6 months now, but I think we’ve reached the end of our rope. I want to break up with him and have been TRYING to come up with the right way to do it, but he JUST surprised me with a big trip to Cancun. We’re not supposed to leave for a few weeks but I was seriously planning to make a break within a week.
So, do I suck it up and go on the trip or do I go ahead and break up with the guy?
2 Tickets to Not Quite Paradise
Dear 2 Tickets to Not Quite Paradise,
John thought you should take the trip, saying that people always fall in love on trips and this might be a chance to salvage your relationship. Tony and I totally disagree though. It’s very sweet that he wanted to surprise you with a vacation but if it’s over, IT’S OVER. You will end up being miserable on the trip and then he’ll feel even more taken advantage of when it’s over. Cut your losses now, steel yourself, and tell the poor guy it’s time to move on.
Hope that helps!
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